Keys to Reaching Young People
- 08.08.11
- Church, Evangelism, Parenting
- 2 Comments
In the summer 2011 edition of Facts & Trends magazine, Thom Rainer, the president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources, pointed out five big changes he sees coming for American churches. Here are a couple of his research findings (in italics) followed by a few brief comments by yours truly.
1. Our nation will see the emergence of the largest generational mission field in more than a century. According to our current research, the Millennial generation, those born between 1980 and 2000, will have a very low Christian representation. Our estimates now are that only 15 percent are Christian. With a huge population of nearly 80 million, that means that nearly 70 million young people are not Christians.
2. The dominant attitude of this huge generation toward Christianity will be largely indifferent. Only 13 percent of the Millennials rank any type of spiritual matter as important to their lives. They are not angry at churches and Christians. They simply ignore us because they do not deem us as meaningful or relevant.
3. Family will be a key value for Millennials. Nearly eight out of ten of the Millennials ranked family as the important issue in their lives. They told us that they had healthy relationships with their parents who, for the most part, are Baby Boomers. Some churches say they are family friendly, but few actually demonstrate that value. Churches that reach both of these generations will make significant changes to become the type of churches that foster healthy family relationships.
Those born between 1980 and 2000 are currently between the ages of 11 and 31. If the numbers are anywhere near accurate, then there are a couple of things I see as being crucial if this generation is going to be reached for Christ.
Christian parenting. If we want to reach this generation for Christ, then it may be wise for us to look to minister to the generation ahead of them. A secular study done in the early 2000′s revealed that the number one determining factor of a child’s religious beliefs and practices once he or she reaches adulthood is the influence of one or both parents. Parents are the key, so rather than first looking to reach this generation directly for Christ (at least the younger half – ages 11-19), maybe we ought to look at reaching their parents first.
Family Ministry. Churches need to have a strong focus on helping parents raise their children to follow the Lord. This includes marriage ministry, parenting ministry, children’s ministry, and youth ministry. All of these ministries must be relevant and must work together to assist parents in the training of their children to walk with the Lord as adults. Of course, in the absence of godly parents, churches can assume the lead role in helping kids grow in the Lord, but even non-Christian parents must never be excluded from the ministry reach and help of the local church.
Church Integration. The churches that see the most young adults (ages 18-30) stay connected (to the church and to their faith) are churches that don’t just offer age-specific ministries to young adults, but work diligently at helping them integrate into the life and body of the church as a whole. Real life is integrated and multi-generational. Churches that keep young adults separated from the rest of the body are not doing anyone any good. I’m not suggesting that churches do away with age-specific programs for young adults (college and career, etc), but I am suggesting that churches must work diligently to help young adults integrate relationally and in ministry with people from other generations.
These are just a few thoughts off the top of my head. What are your thoughts as you process Rainer’s findings that I listed above?

I agree with your assessment, Mike. When the church offers real solutions to life’s real issues, then young people become less indifferent because they see, rather than hear, that Christ really is the answer. For example, when a father is struggling with an addiction and isn’t there for his children, the church can offer practical support to the entire family to show support and real-life answers rather than simply putting the family on a prayer list.
As one who is kind of shooting in the dark about how to make sure my kids have everything they need to become followers of Christ, I would like to know what works and doesn’t work. I would love if we could interview parents of Foothills, especially those who have raised children who are now strong believers and have good marriages (Evonne comes to mind). I would ask them questions like: how did you disciple your children, how often/how many times did you have devotions, what books did you read, how did you help them to stay in the world but not be of the world, how did you model God working in you, how did you convey the need to follow hime, how much did you serve, how did you order your life, etc.???? But I would also like to hear from people whose children are not following Christ to see what doesn’t work. Of course there is a free will, but still the environment makes a huge difference.