You better really enjoy being with your spouse once all of the kids have moved out. If not, you’ll be in quite a bind. Don’t neglect your marriage while the kids are living at home. Build into it and enjoy one another. Michelle and I did, and we’re really enjoying the empty nest.
I recently attended Willow Creek’s Global Leadership Summit. It’s a yearly gathering of some 200,000 leaders from all over the world who desire to be better leaders. One of the speakers this year was leadership guru Joseph Grenny who talked about the importance of having crucial conversations – which are conversations that need to happen but are very hard to have. He said that if we don’t have these, we will end up acting out our frustration with the other person – which will only make the situation worse. He claims that not having these kinds of conversations is what often stops the growth of relationships, organizations, etc. His question is one I pose to you: What crucial conversations (in your marriage, at work, in your family, etc) do you need to have that you’re not having now?
A couple weeks ago, I took my son, Taylor, to Denver to see one of all-time favorite rock bands, Stryper. He likes them too. What a show! All 4 original members and all over the age of 50. 50 must be the new 30 because they are better live now than they were 20 years ago when I first saw them live.
If you’re looking for a good movie to watch, let me recommend a couple of recent releases – all about food – that Michelle and I have really enjoyed over the last few months…
Harvard University analyzed their delivery system and concluded that just one in a million lunchboxes is ever delivered to the wrong address. This is the story of that one.
Hundred Foot Journey
It is a story about how the hundred-foot distance between a new Indian restaurant and a traditional French one represents the gulf between different cultures and desires. It focuses on the rivalry and resolution of the two restaurants and is based in Lumière, France.
Chef Carl Casper suddenly quits his job at a prominent Los Angeles restaurant after refusing to compromise his creative integrity for its controlling owner, he is left to figure out what’s next. Finding himself in Miami, he teams up with his ex-wife, his friend and his son to launch a food truck.