To Text or Not to Text?
- 01.19.10
- Culture, Parenting, Teenagers
- 11 Comments
Evidently, I just don’t get it. When my girls text their friends while they’re talking to me; when they attempt to text their friends during dinner (which is not allowed in our home by the way); or when they invite a girlfriend over and then sit next to each other for hours in silence and text other friends, evidently that’s perfectly acceptable and normal behavior. For me to have a problem with it is totally unreasonable and “stupid.”
According to an article in yesterday’s Pittsburgh Tribune-Review, this kind of texting is considered “multitasking” by many teens today and should not be considered offensive by the rest of us.
“I can survive without responding to texts, (but) I simply don’t see the necessity of not answering,” one young person was quoted as saying. The article revealed that some professors and school administrators were stunned that students couldn’t understand why texting during class, or in the middle of a face-to-face conversation, would be considered disrespectful.
Another student said, “One of the most important things we want to get across to professors is that we’re not ignoring them when we’re texting. We’re still listening. We’re still taking notes. We’re just doing something urgent.” But not all students agree. One young person said, “I think it’s disrespectful. It’s distracting to other students if you hear clicking. It disrupts the whole class.”
So, what’s do you think is acceptable? Are we “old farts” making too big of a deal out of this, or are we on to something? When is it appropriate to text and when is it not?
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